Here’s to the Maybes, the Almosts, the Ones told “I can’t”, the Ones busied away. Do you ever think about where they must go Once you’ve relegated them to a footnote?
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Tag: Love
A Single Guy’s (Positive) Take on Valentine’s Day
If you’re in a good relationship, celebrate that today. Don’t patronize your single friends. Don’t act like you forgot the day. Even a bog standard date on Valentine’s Day ain’t a horror show.
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On Wants and Wanteds
I want to get to know you… slowly, so slowly, always searching, never caring about the destination
I wanted to hold your hand and feel you squeeze mine back
On the Fragility of Our Connections
On the nature & fragility of friendship, of love & its connections & how people so often change the connections they have always known.
Continue readingLetting Go of Ourselves to Gain Something of Someone Else
On the concept of letting go, sacrificing a smidge of control in one’s life in the pursuance of love, of relationships etc…
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Chemistry, Conversation and the Theatre of Awkward
Wouldn’t it be nice just to have someone to talk to…. Maybe over a pot of gumbo on a lazy Sunday evening. But I am still picky?
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Fear is the Heart of Love
“Fear is the heart of love” Towards the end of a recent Peloton class, I heard the preceding lyric from a Death Cab for
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A Thought on Putting Oneself Out There
Thoughts on the nature and development of friendship and relationships and the risks we take or don’t have to take.
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8 Months Later, I Still Miss My Doggy
Eight months ago, I had to put my dog to sleep. Oreo was about 12-14 years old; I had him for six of the
Continue readingA St. Valentine’s Day Request
On this most noxious of days, I only ask that the couples of the world (esp the ladies) NOT fucking complain about their so-called
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